In These Fast Paced Everydays by Estrella Azul (FreeSpace #2)

29 Apr



In these fast-paced everydays, also think of…

 by Estrella Azul


It is considered a virtue to love the people around us, but self love should also be considered a virtue. All the more because we ourselves are the objects of our own feelings, thoughts and attitude.

Treasuring ourselves, treating the self with care, respect, looking inside to gain self knowledge is all interdependent. The more we treasure ourselves, the more we will treasure others. So, we should love ourselves enough to do the things we love, too.

During our “left over” 8 hrs, are we going where our heart leads us? If we follow that lead, what would we be doing, who would we be with, what would we be eating, how would we be helping, creating, living, loving, learning?

After answering honestly and realistically (I’d love to travel to Paris and spend every afternoon there crisscrossing the Seine, but that isn’t possible), we should follow through with practical “gifts” to the self to express self love.

What will make the self happy? Would we be in the park, would we be walking around aimlessly in town looking at the buildings and our surroundings through a tourist’s eyes? Would we be with a dear friend, an old acquaintance catching up on each other’s lives, or simply alone trying out that new restaurant we’ve wanted to try ever since it opened two months ago, ordering Baby Spinach, Mandarin and Red Onion salad? Would we be helping out in a soup kitchen, creating written/doodled/photographed art? Would we be living truer to who we are, loving those we met ten or twenty years ago and never openly admitted to our feelings? Would we be learning new skills in a class or simply through reading anything and everything we can get our hands on?

As a closing, I’ll leave you with the following thoughts. Back in March 2013, I wrote someone a letter. After I finished and reread my thoughts, I realized I might as well have addressed it to myself.

“Dear Self,

I know how acutely the sadness of life can be felt. I’ve felt it. I feel it myself. It has the ability to numb one’s mind, to keep one from moving along. It makes one cry themselves to sleep.

But we have to get out from there. Walk out and follow our own yellow brick road leading us to where we should be: in the present. I think that is where Dorothy was heading. From a place of sadness, through the world of her perceptions, imagination and dreams. Into the present.

Where wonderful things can happen if we allow them to unfold. We have to wake up to being right where we are supposed to be.

There truly is no place like home; the home provided by leaving behind worries of the past and future!



Go on, write a love letter to yourself. Then follow your own yellow brick road, your heart’s advice, and give yourself a “gift” of self love.


Estrella Azul

Estrella Azul is a writer, passionate about reading, floral art and photography, with an artistic personality and a soulful outlook on life, who shadows well. Estrella shares with her readers some of her thoughts and daily happenings, along with her creative writing on Life’s a stage – WebBlog©.

You can find Estella’s Weekend Showcase here and her last FreeSpace here.


Estrella’s third FreeSpace will be on Monday 19th May, and tomorrow you can catch up with what’s afoot with an ArtiPeeps Update tomorrow.  As always, thank you for your interest. 


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8 Responses to “In These Fast Paced Everydays by Estrella Azul (FreeSpace #2)”

  1. Gill O April 29, 2014 at 6:20 pm #


  2. Milli Thornton (@fearofwriting) April 29, 2014 at 8:49 pm #

    Absolutely beautiful. Your letter to yourself gave me so many goose bumps I thought I was going to lift out of my chair. Thank you for seeding this kind of love and self-care.

  3. obermoeller May 1, 2014 at 12:43 am #

    Love this essay!

    • Estrella Azul May 3, 2014 at 8:37 pm #

      Thank you for your kind comments, everyone, it is such a joy to see my words have made a difference in your day and that you liked it so much so you’ve also taken the time to tell me so.
      It humbles me each time this happens. Thank you!

  4. Deanna Schrayer May 4, 2014 at 2:37 pm #

    Absolute perfect timing Estrella. I’ve always tried to teach my children that loving ourselves is just as important as loving others, for we must have love in our hearts before we can give it away, but sometimes I need a reminder of that myself. Thank you for a lovely essay!


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